Is it important that someone you want to be with has more in common with you religiously/culturally? Or that that someone loves you, makes you feel as though you’re the most important thing in their life, will go out of their way to look after you?

I’ve always made such a big deal about the guy I end up with being Tamil. Just because of the language barrier but languages can be learnt right? People are supposed to get wiser as they get older! WTF happened to me?!


2 thoughts on “Importance

  1. if there’s a common language (English in this case), you can communicate with each other. don’t you think?
    It’s the morals, values and how grounded a person is, are what would matter to me. think hard 🙂

  2. CJ – I agree. Those things do matter. But culturally we are differnt and I don’t want him victimised by my society (though I don’t think my friends and family will do that!). It is tough isn’t it – having to make decisions as you get older?

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